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Key Messages For Your Staff
Talking with staff at a difficult time like this can
feel like a daunting task. Below are some suggested key messages that
may help you communicate with your employees and facilitate their recovery
and return to productive work.
- We grieve. Find out if any employees
have lost family, friends or acquaintances. Share your grief and offer
support.
- Know what to expect of yourself. You
may experience emotions of denial, disbelief, confusion, shock, sadness,
yearning, anger, humiliation, despair and guilt, and you may not be
prepared for the intensity and duration of your emotions or how swiftly
your moods may change. However, these feelings are common, healthy
and will help you come to terms with this tragedy. Be aware that you
may resolve your feelings and symptoms but then have a recurrence of
traumatic symptoms during stressful times, such as retirement, divorce,
or loss of a loved one.
- Talk and listen patiently with your co-workers.
If you feel grief, anxiety or anger, you are not alone. Talk to
your colleagues who are experiencing the same feelings. Some may have
gone through the aftermath of other disasters. When listening, don’t
try to "fix it" or offer false comfort, especially if somebody
has lost a loved one. Instead, offer a simple expression of sorrow
and take time to listen to them. Where possible, offer to help them
with tasks of daily life, such as errands, cooking and shopping. Discourage
damaging ways of coping such as excessive drinking. Don’t hesitate
to recommend professional help when you feel someone is experiencing
too much pain to cope alone.
- Be aware that people will respond differently
and recover at different paces. Some will want to get back
to work to regain a sense of control, and others will have difficulty
focusing for some time. This is a normal response to a crisis. Many
people survive disasters without developing significant psychological
problems, but many may need assistance.
- Business will go on. Acknowledge that
work will be subdued and perhaps very different in some ways, depending
on your particular industry and how severely it was impacted, but there
will be continuity. Returning to productive work will help with healing
as individuals and as a nation.
- Many people with family in the government, military,
or living oversees may be concerned for their ongoing safety. Ask
employees if they fall into this category, and encourage them to seek
support and care as needed.
- Many employees who are required to travel for
work may be afraid to do so. Reassure them that this is a normal
reaction, and that you have their safety in mind first and foremost.
Tell them about any short-term travel policy changes, and let them know
they will be revamped as necessary as more information becomes available
from the government and the airlines.
- While anger is a natural reaction, prejudice
and racism will not be tolerated. It was hatred that caused
these senseless and despicable events, and we must not permit ourselves
to sink to that level by expressing hostility to members of specific
ethnic and religious groups in the workplace, among our customers or
in our communities. (Staff who "look" Middle Eastern, have
accents or are foreign nationals are potential objects of this prejudice.)
Supervisors will challenge discriminatory remarks or actions, or any
environment of harassment, and disciplinary action will be taken.
- Take care of yourselves and your families.
Eat well, get plenty of rest and exercise, spend time with those closest
to you, postpone major life decisions and other significant stressors
when you can, and seek outside help when necessary.
- Take care of your children.
Many of you who have children are concerned about their well being while
you are at work and at home. There are several steps you can take to
help them handle the effects of this crisis:
- Turn off the TV when they are in the room;
- Let them express their feelings and ask questions;
- Share your own coping strategies with them;
- Get back to your family routine as soon as possible;
and
- Reassure them that they are safe.
- Seek help if you need to. If your feelings
are too much to bear, seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Mental health problems- in general and in response to this tragedy -
are real, diagnosable and treatable. People should not be embarrassed
to seek the help that they need. Furthermore, mental health treatment
(including both talk therapy and possibly medication) is very effective.
The information you provide will vary depending upon your organization’s
resources, but may include information about your EAP, health plan,
mental health administrator, and community resources. Make sure you
have current provider listings available, as well as documents detailing
available benefits and the processes for accessing care. Tell them
whom to contact in your organization if they have trouble with accessing
services or with the quality of care that they receive. Be aware that
people with a history of trauma or mental health problems are more likely
to have mental health treatment needs- as are those who have lost loved
ones.
- Contact us with any concerns or suggestions.
Let them know that the doors of your organization’s leadership are open
to them during this and other times of crisis. Designate a human resources
or other manager as a contact person.
The National Mental Health Association has several resources
available to help you and others cope, including Time for Reassurance,
Talking with Kids, Coping Tips for Adults and fact sheets
on post-traumatic stress, depression, coping with loss and other topics.
To obtain this information, go to www.nmha.org or call our toll-free line 800-969-NMHA
(6642).
National
Mental Health Association
2000 N. Beauregard Street, 6th Floor
Alexandria, VA 22311
Phone
703/684-7722
Fax 703/684-5968
Mental Health Information Center 800/969-NMHA
TTY Line 800/433-5959
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